I totally agree as a gay black man I’m either a thug, or an overly flamboyant bottom. Just last week I was talking to someone and get one of my favorite lines. “Oh you’d be perfect but you’re black” I find I find it very odd that of community that professes diversely so much can be so narrowminded and OK with its narrowmindedness. It’s almost as if the white supremacist power structure is in full flux with inside of the community.