I read this article not as an advice on ‘how to find a ‘right’ man’ but as an advice to fulfil your own potential as the writer described correctly we are often terrified to discover we have no talent (or it could be just a fail which we take as a lack of talent), so it is safer to go on ‘having a potential’ and not fulfilling it. Maybe, because of where I am now I take it as an advice and a push to take this leap and try to realise that potential. Haven’t opened medium for a while and this is the first thing I came across today. Take it as a sign. Thank you.