Or maybe it’s the context of patriarchy that makes it so harmful?
“Many school shooters, one common factor: a warped view of masculinity”
Jess Brooks

Yes. I find myself studying men to see the scorched earth patriarchy has wrought upon their access to emotional resources. I’m not very far along, but there is pain there. They don’t know it because maybe there’s no words for it (the equivalent of female-labor).

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