If you’d been subjected to a particular kind of condescending behavior for just about every day of your damn life by a certain kind of person, you’d be a bit touchy around it too. Which was the point of all that I said throughout this thread. She’s experienced that; I’ve experienced that and you haven’t.
I’ve already quoted to you how you were snippy and condescending to the OP, and I can go back and find some more citations if you’d like, but since we’ve been playing so nicely here, I’ll refrain.
I’ll also refrain from linking my piece entitled, “I Don’t Care If I’m Pleasing to You!”
Have a good one! 🖐