Why He’s Not Taking You Serious For A Potential Girlfriend And Instead Playing You.

Elliot Scott
4 min readMay 26, 2024

Did you know that men are naturally risk-avoidant creatures? This evolutionary trait plays a massive role in why he might not take you seriously and make you his girlfriend.

You're in the right place if you’ve been questioning why things aren’t progressing. Today, we’ll dive into the three main reasons why this happens and how you can avoid getting stuck.

You Give Him Girlfriend Benefits Without Him Having to Commit

One of the main reasons a guy isn’t making you his girlfriend is because you’re giving him all the girlfriend benefits without requiring a commitment.

These benefits include:

  • Spending quality time
  • Providing emotional support
  • Physical intimacy
  • Domestic tasks like cooking and cleaning,
  • Financial support
  • Loyalty
  • Social validation
  • Boosting his ego
  • Giving him a sense of control

If so, ask yourself, “What is the benefit of him committing?” Men are logical, and evolutionary psychology explains that if he’s in a great position to…

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Elliot Scott

#Dating #relationships #selfimprovment #psychology. Dating coach for women