Elsie GoycooleaBlockedUnblockFollowFollowingI like to talk in silence. Writing to make people think. Can’t choose the words, the words choose me.Jun 6, 2016how can I view it as an opportunity, not an obligation?Do You Show Up? I Don’t.Josh Spilker313Yes! I call an opportunity the Joy of Giving In (JOGI) and an obligation the Fear of Missing Out (FOMO).