Stop Shifting Blames :)
Blaming others for your actions/in-actions doesn’t change the fact that we are responsible for our lives and will be held accountable for what we do with it respectively.
If someone throws a jab at me, whatever happens next depends on me. Whether I decide to hit back or walk away should be under my control, not the offender.
“I reacted in a certain way because he/she made me do it,” is a regular self justified excuse for our irrational deliberate or intentional actions.
You may debate that it’s a fair excuse/reason. However, when you are done shifting blames, remember that YOU made the decision to react the way you did.
A responsible person makes mistakes, but when they do, they take responsibility.
Learn to take responsibility for your actions.