That’s called “strawman” sweetie.
The phrase is referred to women because the laws are biased in favor of women. That’s the point: it’s the man who loses his stuff if he sign a marriage contract and then there’s divorce, not the opposite, 97% times.
Since I don’t sexually like men, and also there isn’t such bias in same-sex marriages, how could be divorce-raped by a man?
You just engage in strawmen.