There are many drivers who kill people, Daniel. That doesn’t make driving half as much reviled as findom. The marginal excesses ARE NOT why people resent findom, ie, what looks like money for nothing. It’s the triggering of capitalist slaves who think “wealth should be earned” when real wealth is never earned, always stolen. Only slavery has to “earn its keep”. And on top of that, like your experience says, findom isn’t even money for nothing.
People like to be triggered and confused.