While I agree with you I think this information can be conveyed without using a negative word like “trash” to describe a women who wants to have sex. The implication that sex means a long term relationship is impossible is common, but insane. Sex is a deeply intimate thing, the stuff that long term relationships are made of. I personally have had long term term relatIonships with sex that happened on the first or second date and so have many of my friends. The problem has to do with the fact that guys are seeking a challenge and sense of mystery. Sex is emotionally significant and often deepens emotional stakes for women too early on, leaving a guy with nothing to chase after. Usually if a guy doesn’t call after a date it’s because there’s nothing he’s really feeling curious, challenged or intrigued by.
