Culture is a manmade recreation of nature, the imaginative reenactment of the systems and the mysteries of nature and the body. The model is Mother Nature. The model for ‘romantic love’ is the mother’s natural selfless love; a love so primordial that it feels as strong as species’ need for…

All humans start in mothers & are born out of the bodies of mothers & dependent on mothers. Human rights therefore must start with Mothers’ rights. Life is energy. Energy is primarily the instinct to reproduce. The urge to live is the reproductive imperative. That is the energizer, the motivator…

The best place for us all to start the practice of our deconditioning & reconditioning is with our practice of sex, both alone & with partners, because sex is the human social behavior that’s least codified by the dominant culture which prescribes everything in our lives until the moment when…

Speaking Sex isn’t the same as having sex. You can Speak Sex all you want & be a virgin or asexual or abstain. You can Speak Sex all you want & be beyond reproach & supremely moral. Words aren’t Actions. Signs aren’t the things they refer to. Confusing signs for…

The patriarchy has been spawned by the (male-identifying) mind over at least six thousand years with the sole purpose of reversing the female body’s reproductive advantage. By means of language & psychology, education & currency, religion & accreditation, law & military, & the numerous other constructs of the mind (&…

Sex is the first knowledge. Long before we had come up with words & counting & time & currency, we knew sex & why it mattered to us collectively most of all. It mattered for our collective advantage long before it mattered for our tribal advantage. It’s the energy source…

To Speak Sex, we acknowledge that Sex is a human right. A human right to the body’s pleasure & feeling of completion. We need to learn to Speak Sex as if it were a new language within our daily familiar language. We don’t need to change all the words we…

Sex is a human right & a human imperative. Sexual justice is the Experience of the Freedom and Power of Speaking Sex. Speaking Sex Means not speaking in metaphors. Speak Sex is a conversation of liberation. Feel the Transformative Language of Consent, of Intentional Intimacy. I call it Speak Sex…

As We Write, We Consciously Open Up Space in The Language to Contain Those of Us Who Were For Generations Silenced or Misnamed I began writing on the island of Lesbos (where I was born) at the age of two when I broke my femur & had to lie in…