Being single for the first time in my adult life, after 25 years of being married to someone “concerned for my health,” I now tell myself “I need to lose 50 lbs before I can go on a dating site to meet men.” Because I’m pretty sure any 50 year old guy wouldn’t be interested in me because “I’m not healthy” and I can’t run a marathon. I don’t even tell people I’ve already lost 10 lbs because I don’t want the pity look… or the overly enthusiastic “great job!” Mabye I need a therapist instead of a diet…