Marriage is tough for both men and women, for different reasons. I just wrote my own thing about why men shouldn’t get married.
I do see that there is the other side of this as well, as you have written about. Men can be problems, too; no doubt about that.
For me it isn’t so much that women are bad or anything, just that marriage as an institution doesn’t really work and ends badly for so many, and especially turns out badly financially and sexually, for many men.