Well done on this — its such a telling experience that we are gay, big men are invisible bith from within and with out the LGBT networks. We are seen as non-sexual, non-worthy and especially not worth any effort to create spaces or clothes that work for us. I appreciated this, especially with the response and feedback I have been getting with my recent #TEDxProvincetown talk in August that spoke of how big, hairy, gay men have created space for ourselves in an effort to be in a world we lacked models and inclusion. While it’s not perfect, each generation of men add to it. My #BearTalk can be shared and seen here: https://youtu.be/8J-gaUgztjs to add to the portfolio of voices taking a stand.