People who ask this are selfish jerks and should be immediately discounted.
Shouldn’t you disclose that you’re a career coach for military spouses? It seems relevant. You do this as a job.
And to the 1950’s thing — it is eminently and entirely possible to have a one income family in the military. I did it as an E-nothing overseas when the COLA I was given was often a fourth or a third too little.