I have been blessed to be adopted by Nigerian families in the US. I don’t stay in the same city as them anymore, we are strongly connected. I agree. The Nigerian men I know react differently (the ones born & raised there). I always feel safe around them. I used to date a Nigerian man, and even when we weren’t in the same place he found ways to keep me safe. I appreciate you all very much and look forward to the day when I will be able to touch the grounds of Mother Nigeria with my own hands and feet.