Dysfunctional Family 101
I swear! After someone in my family called social services on me and my husband. I was hellah done with them. Wanted nothing to associate about. Wanted nothing to care about. In the process of being told that we we’re abusing our kids. I told myself I would still rely and respect my mother. As of today, I will only be respecting.
I recently had a birthday party for my two sons. I wanted to do something small. Take them out to eat. Take to them to game theme park. Take some matching family photos and come back home and blow out the candles. My husband on the other hand wanted to make this a family event. Constantly telling me that we need to reach out to them regardless of what happened with social services. I was hesitant at first, but gave in because I respect my husbands words and thoughts.
We both came out of this situation with different words and thoughts and respecting the family again. I never in my life knew that family could be worse than a snake in the grass, while at the same time being Christians. Worse than random people on the street.
Is my family jealous of me? Of course!
Me and my husband both realized that we were surrounded by jealous, spiteful, intimidated, uneducated and educated back wood thugs at our sons birthday party yesterday and this will be the last time we will put our selves in such a situation to be judged and scrutinize by people that we love, but don’t love us back.
WTF is family now? My personal opinion. Just another extension of humans that you grew up with. They don’t care about your well being. They don’t care about your health. They don’t care about coming together to make things better. They only care about what you have and how much better someone else is doing than them, so that they can be jealous and gossip.
I’m sorry fam, but if you made choices in your life that has pitted you in your current situation. Don’t hate on me and my husband, because he’s a foreigner, that has scooped the local town prize. Don’t hate on me and my husband, because you all ASSUMED that we moved down here because we we’re “struggling” when we actually moved down here to be around this so called “family” for the betterment of our children. Don’t hate on me and my husband, because we are not the typical family that needed a handout and never reached out to your decrepit hands for anything. Don’t just be fucking mad, because all the men and women you have dated have been certified bums and you just can’t believe that the little sister is actually in love with someone that loves her back.
Dysfunctional Family 101 folks here in the flesh. I highly advise, that anyone that is considering moving around their significant others family. Take the time to watch them from a distance, because snakes are on the family lawn and those little critters are hellah spiteful.
-GooDness
