rethink this. major abdominal surgery is no joke and you’ll be in massive pain for a long time. I had a 9lb boy naturally, no episiotomy, etc. years later, a dude with a tiny dick said i was ‘too tight’ LOL. do the kegels. you'll be fine. additionally, labor is good for your baby. The contractions give a massage, stimulate circulation, push amniotic fluid out of their lungs, etc.