Austin Glass
Sep 7, 2018 · 2 min read

I think that your writing should be more exploratory in its approach. It would probably engage you more and therefore engage your audience more. You seem to state things conclusively and then everything you talk about points in another direction or seems to anyway.

You claim to like sex and casual sex and that should be fine for women to feel that way. Only you then go onto complain how your casual partners are selfish and not looking for even the possibility of something long term. Those seem to be contradictory. Maybe you want to like those things because the extreme other side implies that a promiscuous women is somehow tainted. We shouldn’t allow one bad viewpoint to chase us to another one though.

I have been married for sometime so not sure if it is the same culturally as when I was younger. Back then many of the young women I knew would seem to eliminate their male friends from the possibility of hooking up. It didn’t really make sense to me at the time, but as a male I don’t make those rules. In retrospect it seems much worse of a strategy than it did then. Why would women eliminate the men as potential lovers that actually enjoyed spending time with them outside of potential sexual hookups? Those are the men who are emotionally and personally invested in them. They would seem to be more likely to care about their satisfaction in a sexual encounter than some random guy. Yet they completely crossed them off.

The argument at the time was that it would mess up “the friendship”. Long term those friendships don’t hold up anyway or that was my experience. Not that you mean for that to happen. It just that you get a career, a spouse, and ultimately a family. You just don’t have time to keep up with people even if you are still Facebook friends.

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