Oh if only you knew the truth on the IQ thing. You say something is a cliche and that just dismisses it? What does legally allowing men the right to go to use a women’s bathroom mean to you? It means that no matter what they cannot arrest or sue a man for being there. If it is illegal then it isn’t necessarily enforced.
This may come as a shock to you, but there are both smart and dumb people on both sides of most issues. Unfortunately the dumb have too much of a voice most of the time.
I would love to live in a world in which sexual predators didn’t exist. That we could say it is legal for people to go to any bathroom who have gender identity issues. The world doesn’t need to be harder for them. Again though wishing that was the case doesn’t make the fact that sexual predators existing go away.
Sorry if there isn’t enough space here to explain the minutiae so that you can comprehend. I am trying to lead you down a trail and hoping you can connect some dots. The point was that people who disagree with your extremely narrow perspective aren’t bigots. Some might be, but most are not. The fact that you fail to comprehend that reflects on your limited knowledge not anyone else’s.