Straight men: You’re Not Turning Gay or Bi. You Might be Heteroflexible.

I play around with several men regularly. Two are married to women, one is dating a girl, and 1 is “exploring himself.” All of them still consider themselves “straight”, or as one of them puts it, “mostly straight.”

They don’t consider themselves bisexual because none of them have romantic feelings for me. To them, it’s just sex. So, if they’re not bisexual but they also not 100% straight, what are they?

A heteroflexible man usually finds himself attracted to people of a different gender, but there are times when he might feel drawn to those of his own gender. This is part of the beautiful and diverse spectrum of human sexuality, showing just how personalized and fluid our sexual identities are.

If you’re someone who doesn’t quite feel that the label ‘bisexual’ fits you, it’s okay. You might be heteroflexible, and that’s a completely valid and natural way to experience your sexuality. It’s all about finding the term that resonates with your personal experiences and feelings.

It’s important to warmly embrace and appreciate heteroflexible individuals, understanding that everyone’s…