15 Different Sex Positions to Blow Her Mind In Bed
Discover All the Different Sex Positions That Both of You Will Love — Is Taking Her Over the Edge Really This Easy?
At the end of the day, sex is just like any other sport or performing art:
The final result is only worth the energy and practice you put into it.
Sex can be downright tantalizing, or a total snooze-fest — and a lot of it has to do with the amount of effort that you and the woman you’re with put into it.
So if you’re ready to switch things up a little, and spice up your sex life… it can mean the difference between boring, mediocre sex, and absolutely mindblowing sex.
(I don’t know about you, but I’ll take the latter — and as much of it as I can get, please!)
Sex should be something you and your partner continually learn from and improve, in order to keep it fresh, exciting, and enjoyable.
So whether you’re new to having sex…
Looking for more advanced or experimental positions…
Or looking for sex positions to drive her wild…
You’ve come to the right place.
Beginner Vs. Intermediate Vs. Advanced: How to Choose the Right Positions For You
In this article, I’m going to walk you through the best positions for:
- Beginners looking to master basic sex moves…
- Experienced people looking to experiment or learn some new tricks…
- Those interested in finding moves that drive her wild & take her over the edge…
And much more. I’ll show you the 5 best moves for each category, go through what makes them so hot, and explain how to try them out.
But before we begin, you might be wondering:
“How do I know if I’m a beginner or more advanced?”
And ultimately, I can’t answer that — only you can honestly answer that question for yourself. But if you aren’t sure, my recommendation is to skim through the “Beginner” positions and move on to the following sections once you feel familiar with those.
While these moves might not work perfectly for everyone, there are variations you can try out and angle adjustment recommendations that will help you perfect each position.
Let’s begin with the 5 best sex positions for beginners:
The 5 Best Beginner Sex Positions
Let’s start with the basics. If you’re new to sex, experimenting is something you should look forward to.
But in the meantime, it’s important to get comfortable with sex in some basic (yet amazing) positions that will help you gain confidence & sexual mastery in bed.
(Speaking of sexual mastery, did you know that only 6% of guys know how to take charge the way women want? Here’s why… and how to do it.)
While basic, yes, these positions are also sex staples. Every sexually active guy should be able to impress a woman with these fundamental moves.
However, there is one thing to keep in mind:
Make sure you pay attention to your partner’s responses to your moves — especially when you’re first having sex with her.
This is the key to determining what she likes and doesn’t like. And ultimately, it will make for better sex for you both.
The Missionary position gets a really bad rap. A lot of women say it’s boring…
And too simple…
Which is pretty unfair, considering how popular it is.
While yes, Missionary can be boring (let’s face it, any position can be boring if you aren’t trying), it’s a staple sex position for a reason.
- It’s comfortable and simple, so you won’t get nervous when you’re doing it…
- It allows you to truly connect with the woman you’re with. You can lock eyes with her and really explore what she likes…
- Finally, it offers a deeper sense of intimacy…
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
So to pull it off, have your girl lie down flat on her back with her legs spread apart.
Kneel over her body (almost like you’re doing a push-up).
You can have her legs spread around yours, or vice versa — do whatever feels most comfortable for you.
2) Standing Missionary
This slight variation on the traditional position feels a little naughtier but is actually just as easy to perfect.
Simply have the woman you’re with lay down toward the bottom of the bed, so her butt is just above the edge.
Stand in front of the bed (leaving a few inches between you and the mattress), and hold her legs or have her wrap them around you.
To be honest, this position is even simpler to achieve than standard Missionary for many people, because you don’t have to worry about holding up your own body weight.
If you find there are height differences making it difficult for you to enter her easily — try raising her up by placing a pillow under her hips.
3) Sitting Girl on Top
“Girl on Top” is a great position for your lady to show you what she likes. However, it can be a little intimidating if you’ve never tried it before.
To make things a little bit easier, try this modified position where both of you are sitting down.
To begin, sit on the couch or bed and have her climb on top of you, slowly lowering herself down onto your shaft.
Let her then rock up and down or in a circular motion until neither of you can take it anymore.
What makes this position so great is that it allows the two of you to experience the closeness and intimacy you get with Missionary… while also letting her take the reigns and show you what she likes.
Pro Tip: Pay attention to what makes her moan, and keep it in mind for next time.
4) Modified Doggy Style
Many people — both men and women — enjoy doing the deed Doggy Style. But if you’re new to sex, this position can seem a little intense.
Plus, until you get enough practice in, it’s important to wait on this one to avoid hurting your partner.
So to modify this position, have her lay on her stomach with a pillow or two underneath. This helps raise her butt up without changing the nuts and bolts of it too much.
It also gives you a better angle to enter her from behind without getting too rough.
Go slowly at first to make sure the angle is good for both of you — you can also add or remove pillows from underneath her as needed.
Modified Doggy Style is a great way to experiment with sex in a “safe” way, so you can try traditional Doggy Style later on down the road.
5) Modified Girl on Top
If you’re aching to try Girl on Top but the woman you’re with seems hesitant, try compromising with this position instead.
It’s different from the Sitting Girl on Top I mentioned above because there’s no sitting involved here — she’s laying on top of you instead.
However, what separates it from traditional Girl on Top is that she’s leaning over you, using her hands to lift her own body weight.
You can even think of it as a slightly reversed Missionary position. Plus, you can help her out by thrusting from beneath her.
And once you’ve mastered these moves, you can switch them up a bit to prevent them from becoming too repetitive.
Try changing the location you’re having sex in, or you could try slightly tweaking the positioning as well.
Never underestimate the power of raising her up to a different angle or slightly modifying a position. :-)
The 5 Best Intermediate Sex Positions
Have you already mastered the basics…?
Or maybe you’re just looking for more of a challenge in bed…?
Perhaps you and your girlfriend are wanting to experiment, but you don’t know exactly where to start.
These 5 positions will be great stepping stones into your experimentation with sex. Plus, many of them can be performed with props or bondage techniques to really kick it up a notch.
1) Doggy Style
If you’ve never tried this beloved position before or if you’re looking to get more experimental, Doggy Style is the perfect place to start.
It’s a great introduction to rougher sex and can be intensely pleasurable for both you and the woman you’re with.
To perfect this position, have her kneel down on the bed, then lower her upper body so she’s on her hands and knees.
Kneel or lay down behind her and enter her from behind.
Also, keep in mind that you will probably have to play with the angle after you enter her.
For example, a 90-degree (perpendicular) angle of entry might not feel amazing for her…
But using pillows or having her lower her head down could help bend her body so that you’re entering from an angle she loves.
If you’ve already mastered this position or you’re looking to kick things up a notch, then Doggy Style is also a great way to start experimenting with anal sex.
Start with toys first, and tweak the angle until both of you are comfortable enough to go for it.
For an added little bit of kink, try riding her while pulling her hair or tying her down.
(As a woman, I can tell you that most of us want you to be really rough with us in bed… here are 3 ways to do it I promise she’ll love.)
2) Spread Eagle
If you’re really looking to spice up your sex life, there’s nothing better than a move that requires some minor bondage.
The Spread Eagle is an incredible position for anyone interested in dabbling with BDSM or just looking for some extra fun in bed.
To perfect this position, have her lie down on her back. Next, have her lift her legs and arms up in the air, raising her legs and lowering her arms until her ankles and wrists are touching.
Then, tie both her ankles and her wrists together — make sure the knot is tight, but not too tight to cut off her circulation.
Finally, enter her from above (similar to Missionary).
This puts you in complete control of the situation, which is ideal if you’re looking to play with Dominant/Submissive roles.
Even if you aren’t into BDSM, this position can be extremely thrilling, so long as there is complete trust between you and your partner.
3) Reverse Cowgirl
Giddy up, cowboy!
Put her in the driver’s seat with this incredible position.
This variation of Girl on Top offers her more control over the situation, while also allowing you to relax more. Plus, you get a great view while you’re doing it.
Lie flat on your back or at an angle and have her straddle you so that she’s facing your feet. She can then use her thighs to swivel and bounce up and down.
To make it a little more intense and to give her some more leverage, bend your knees so she can use them to help lift her body up and down.
And if you want to take this position even further, have her tie you down so you’re unable to do anything except lay back and enjoy the ride.
4) Inclined Doggy Style
Wanna experiment with some angles? This position is perfect for you.
It’s one of the most inventive modifications to traditional Doggy Style and might be just what you need to spice up your sex life.
You’ll need stairs to make this happen, and it’s also a great position for both vaginal and anal sex — I’ll let you decide.
To pull it off, have the woman you’re with kneel on a stair and let her lean forward with her upper body so that she’s resting on the steps above her legs.
Then you do the same, except your upper body will rest on hers as you enter her from behind.
It’s one of the best ways to figure out what angles drive both of you wild and can be the perfect “gateway drug” to start experimenting with sex in strange places.
5) Wet and Wild
You don’t have to incorporate brand-new moves into the bedroom to experiment — instead, try changing your environment.
Shower sex can be a lot of fun (as long as you’re careful), so if you’re looking to switch up your sex routine, just add water.
To be successful at shower sex, make sure you have an awesome silicone-based lube for her and something sturdy for you to hold on to.
You can try a standing Doggy Style position where she bends over, or you could also try standing face to face while you penetrate her (bend her leg for support).
Experimenting with sex is a fun part of any healthy relationship, so don’t let the positions do all the work for you.
Try incorporating dirty talk…
Or other props that you both agree will really help push things to the next super-sexy level.
The 5 Best Positions for Her Pleasure
While sex is usually a lot of fun for most of us ladies…
It can still be really difficult to actually have an orgasm during the deed (even if what you’re doing feels really, really good).
However, while orgasming during sex can be a real challenge for most women — it’s definitely not impossible.
(Like did you know her orgasm is 80% more likely if you can do this to her? It’s so freaking easy too.)
One of the easiest ways for a woman to orgasm through intercourse is by placing her in the driver’s seat. This way, she can stimulate her body the way she wants.
Of course, there are also ways for you to control her movements while also blowing her mind.
So if you want to do everything you can to give her the sexual pleasure she craves, try adding one (or more) of these sex positions to your arsenal.
1) The Fusion
This position is a little more complicated to pull off, but it’s so worth the effort.
It offers better movement control for her while providing you with the best view in the house. ;-)
To perfect this position, sit on the bed with your legs spread. Then lean back and prop yourself up using the palms of your hands.
From there, have her sit facing you between your legs, and prop her legs up on your shoulders. She’ll also be leaning back slightly and supporting her weight with her palms.
This position allows her to move up and down or in circles, providing faster and more intense orgasms for both of you.
2) The Waterfall
This position doesn’t take place in the shower — instead, it’s named after the way it looks.
Not only does it provide better control over movements for her, but it also ensures you have one of the best orgasms of your life.
Try it out by laying flat on your back (toward the foot of the bed).
Slowly slide your head and back off of the bed so that your head and shoulders are on the floor.
At this point, your body will be arched in a kind of waterfall shape. Next, have her sit on top of you — from there, she can press her heels against the edge of the bed and grind up and down, moving her hips in circles.
The real secret to this trick is that the blood in your body is going to rush to your head, making your orgasm much more intense than you ever thought possible.
It’s also fantastic for her because she can tease you while building up to her own orgasm.
3) Lowered Reverse Cowgirl
Similar to Reverse Cowgirl, this move keeps the woman in control of all movements.
What makes it different here is that her body will be in a better position to actually navigate her movements more precisely — this increases her chances of reaching orgasm significantly.
To pull off this position, get into the standard Reverse Cowgirl position.
From there, have her lower herself down to your legs or feet, and she can use the palms of her hands and her knees to help support her body.
This will offer her better control over her movements, allowing her to hit all the right spots.
4) Pinball Wizard
Did you grow up on arcade games? Pinball, perhaps?
Well, consider this the “adult” version of pinball.
This position gives you control of the situation and also makes it easier to bring the woman you’re with to orgasm.
What’s better, it can also be done as rough (or “vanilla”) as you want and can be modified in a few different ways.
To perfect this position, kneel down on the bed and have her lay in front of you.
Lift her legs up and grip her thighs to help thrust in and out.
You can modify this slightly by having her lace her ankles around your neck or over your shoulders.
This steamy position not only feels naughtier than most… but it’s also a great way to give her an easy orgasm (the odds of a woman having an orgasm are increased anytime her legs are in the air).
5) Magic Mountain
The “Magic Mountain” doesn’t just sound like a fun ride at an amusement park… it also feels amazing.
It makes it equally easy for both you and the woman you’re with to control your movements — and on top of that, it makes it way easier for her to finish during sex.
To try it out, have her sit down on the floor. Then sit across from her and face each other with your knees bent.
Move toward each other, and have her place her legs over yours so that your bent legs form an “M” shape.
As she lifts her legs over yours, slip inside of her (you may need to move closer to do this).
From there, support your weight by extending your arms behind your back.
Side to side…
Whatever it takes to get the job done. :-)
You can also play with the angle of this position by having her lift her legs over your shoulders or by placing both of her legs over one side of your body.
The best part about this move is that there’s a shared sense of sexual control.
At the end of the day, sex should be fun for both you and the woman you’re with… and these positions should certainly help you get there.
But I’ve gotta confess — there is one more thing you can do to make sure you’re the best she’s ever had.
It’s honestly my favorite thing a guy can do during sex… here’s how it works:
My Personal “Secret” to Give Any Woman a Mindblowing Orgasm…
I’ve never told any guy this before (lol)… but my girlfriends and I all agree:
It doesn’t matter what position you use… how big or small you are… or what you’re doing to us “down there”…
As long as you do this one thing… I’ll happily come… and come back for more anytime…
Seriously… if you can do this… then I’ll do crazy things for you in bed… until I’m sweating… panting… and we both go over the edge. ;-)
I wish more guys knew this so they could pleasure me again and again… so here it is:
P.S. The last guy I slept with did this to me… and I came in like 2 minutes. Have you tried it?