Swinging 101: Threesomes, Sex Parties & How to Find a Swinger Club Near You

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How to Get the Swinger Life That Many Men Desire — Will You Get Lucky With Someone New Tonight?

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For a lot of guys, the swinger lifestyle is something one can only achieve in the movies.

However, the truth is, trading partners — or bringing someone new into the bedroom — remains a fantasy for many men in our community.

So that’s what I want to talk to you about today.

Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce — and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering all of your most difficult, burning questions that keep you up at night.

And today, I’m answering this one:

“How do I get started in the swinger community & lifestyle if I’ve never done it before?”

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

This next question is from Fidelio. Fidelio says:

Hey Glenn, my wife and I wanna get into swinging. Do you have any experience with this?
If so, where can we start?
I don’t wanna end up with some unattractive girl while my wife gets railed by some Handsome Dan from across the room. You know?”

Alright, Fidelio. I bet your concern is the same as a lot of men who are just getting started with swinging.

And here’s what I have to say about it:

Why Your Biggest Concern Probably Isn’t Much of a Concern At All…

I do have a little bit of experience with swinging, Fidelio, but not a ton.

First, let me address the second part of your question — “I don’t wanna end up with some unattractive girl while my wife gets railed by Handsome Dan.”

That’s not gonna happen.

Swinging is about swinging with other couples and other people.

Typically, Handsome Dan is gonna be with a hot, beautiful Barbarella-type girl. You’re not gonna really have to worry about getting an ugly girl while your wife is with a super-handsome guy.

It’s very rare that really handsome guys are f***ing, or swinging, with really ugly girls. That’s just the way it is.

So if you get in that situation — if the guy is really good-looking — then the woman he’s with is probably gonna be really good-looking too.

Where Do Swingers Really Go to Meet Up?

You might be wondering where to meet these kinds of people in the first place.

Well, there are swing clubs. There are chat groups.

Every city and every town in America will have chat groups, swing clubs, swing bars and swingers.

Every town has like-minded people, so you should be able to find people in your area that are swingers.

But are you gonna find good-looking swingers?

Are you gonna find couples that you actually want to be with and want to be with your wife?

I don’t know.

Let me give you a hypothetical situation for a second:

Let’s just say the reverse situation happens — let’s say this super-hot girl is with some dude who you think is ugly.

Are you gonna be OK with being in the situation where you f**k this hot girl, and your wife f**ks some ugly dude?

I would be wary of jumping into this situation unless you and the woman you’re with are extremely comfortable with it. And I would ease into it if you can.

How to “Ease” Her Into Swinging (If She’s Hesitant)

To ease her into swinging, maybe bring another woman into the bedroom a couple times first…

…then maybe bring another man into the bedroom.

That way, it’s not just a total swapping thing right away.

Of course, if you’re like a lot of guys, then bringing up the subject of swinging with the woman you’re seeing might seem a little bit… “difficult.”

I get it.

But let me tell you a quick story that might make you think twice about how open women really are to “taboo” things like swinging…

It goes a little like this:

How Many Women Are Willing To “Swing”? The Truth Might Surprise You…

The very first “swingers” party I went to… I expected it to be mostly guys.

So when my Uber dropped me off at a low-key Manhattan club… and I was greeted at the door by some guy in his 40’s… I was a little disappointed, but not at all surprised.

My plan was to get a drink, scope out the scene, and leave after 10 minutes… and then I saw something that stopped me dead in my tracks:

There, right in front of me, were at least a dozen women… and not only that… they were there alone.

Now, this wasn’t some Eyes Wide Shut-level s**t… they were wearing clothes haha. And of course, there were plenty of guys (and some couples) there too… but the fact remained:

These women were there, by themselves, looking for sex with a man that night. Mind = blown.

Obviously, I had to know more… so after a couple more drinks, I approached a group of them… and after getting to know them a little… I worked up the courage to ask them why exactly they had come to *this* kind of party…

And what they said straight-up shocked me. In fact, it contradicted everything I had previously believed about women:

  • That women don’t go looking for sex in places like THIS & THIS…
  • That only a certain kind of woman is willing to make the first move…
  • And that women definitely aren’t looking for “no-strings” sex with strangers…

This new discovery completely changed the way I thought about women… and ultimately made getting sexual with women a lot easier… so if you’re anything like I was… and those bullets above seem even a little bit true to you…

Then I highly recommend you check this out:

Discover the life-changing truth that makes getting sexual with women so much easier…