The 2 Types of Nasty Women Every Man Encounters (& How to Handle Them)
Discover What to Say & Do Around Difficult Women — How Do You Get Her to Lower Her Guard?
Starting a conversation with a random woman is hard enough as it is…
Throw into the mix a woman with a negative disposition… and getting her to open up to you can feel downright impossible.
But what if she’s simply the most attractive woman in the bar…?
Or you just can’t get her out of your head, no matter how hard you try…?
The truth is, dealing with a difficult or just downright nasty woman is possible — if you know what to do.
Hi, I’m David Dupree, and every week I’ll be answering the most difficult & burning questions you have when it comes to sex and dating.
I get asked questions like this all the time, and today I’m answering this one:
“How do I deal with difficult or nasty women?????”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
I was recently asked how to respond to women who are being “b*tchy.”
Right away, I smiled, because that’s how I personally respond to nasty women. I smile.
The nastier they are, the smilier I get.
Of course, I’ve had guys tell me, “But you have to show her that you’re a man…”
And I stop them right there. There is nothing you want or need to show her.
Because how is she going to affect me at all if I don’t even know her?
I even saw this happen in public:
A guy on a subway train was hitting on a girl (and this is typically not easy to do).
This girl was just being rude in response… and he finally just came up and sat right next to her and said:
“Why are you so frank? Are you always like this?”
And that’s the wrong thing to do. Instead, you want to just smile and laugh. Be unaffected.
2 Types of Nasty Women (& How To Deal With Them)
I’m going to give you some secrets about women that most guys don’t know.
First of all, there are two types of nasty women.
There’s the very, very attractive nasty woman.
I don’t mean all-around attractive — I mean downright beautiful.
Then there is the unattractive woman who just so happens to be b*tchy.
The latter type — the unattractive one — you need to be friendly, sweet and kind to her.
Because there is nothing to lose if you do those things, right?
The only thing you lose by being friendly with a woman is that she will not be interested in you.
So with the ones who you don’t find physically attractive, just be nice to her with your words and responses.
“Oh, I’m sorry.”
“I know, I know.”
“I didn’t mean it that way.”
Be friendly and give in.
Let her win every time because she is in charge of the other girls (the ones you really want).
Which brings me to my next point…
What To Do if She’s Beautiful & “B*tchy”…
For the super gorgeous girl who is acting rude, just push past her behavior exactly 3 times.
Because after those 3 times… she’ll have no response!
You could say things like:
“Oh, come on…”
“That hurt my feelings…” (Then laugh sarcastically)…
And my favorite, “Don’t make me cry.”
She’ll start laughing with you, and then it’s over.
Her guard will be down after that.
She doesn’t have any experience with it!
The only guys who can push past it are guys who she dates.
And if you push past her rude behavior, that guy will be you.
I’ll break it down step-by-step for you:
She’ll give you a b*tchy response to your approach.
You come back with something friendly.
She’ll try to be b*tchy again, and you come back for the second time being friendly.
She’ll try for the last time, and on your last friendly comeback, she’ll kind of laugh.
It’s that easy.
Is It Possible to Shut Her Down & Get Back in Control?
Ultimately, this strategy is the fastest way to shut down her rude behavior and get her to open up to you.
Pretend it’s your sister if you have to just to deal with the initial nastiness.
Then it’s like you’re her brother and she gives in.
She cannot keep it up. Trust me.
Because if she’s beautiful, she has worked for that.
And if she’s worked over time, it means she wants to be liked.
That’s most of what beauty is — a desire to be liked.
She was used to being liked when she was young, because she was so cute, and so she has developed a strong desire to be liked.
She is used to wanting people to like her.
So you’ve got to be able to handle her, because she doesn’t want to be around guys who can’t handle her.
However, it’s often difficult to tell the difference between a woman who’s acting b*tchy because she’s testing you… and a woman who’s just downright nasty.
So here’s an easy way to tell the difference:
Does She Secretly Want You?
Women can be SO weird. Like when a woman seems rude or “b*tchy”… she might secretly be into you!
(Like I mentioned earlier, the reason she acts like this is to “test” you. It sounds crazy, but it’s true. Google it sometime.)
So how do you tell the difference between a woman who is genuinely interested in you… and a girl who’s just being nasty for no reason?
Well, there are a few subtle body language signs you can look for that reveal her true level of interest.
And while I’ll admit they aren’t exactly “easy” to spot… if you know what to look for… then you have one HUGE advantage:
You can avoid all the downright nasty women… and only interact with the ones who are secretly into you (but are likely too afraid to admit it).
Of course, there are more advantages to knowing these body language clues. You’ll:
- Minimize rejection (because you’ll only talk to girls who you know are already interested in you)…
- Bring more women into your life (many of those “shy” girls who seem standoffish may actually be into you… you just might not know it yet)…
- Be able to confidently make the first move (because you’ll already know she wants you to)…
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg :-):