The Secret to a Great First Date? Watch Porn, Says New Study

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When It Comes to the Best Tips for First Date Success, Porn Probably Isn’t at the Top of Your List…But Should It Be?

Have you ever been on a date where you’re feeling the connection…

You can tell it’s almost on…

But then, you get stuck in your own head, and say or do something that ruins the mood?

Hey — we’ve all been there. And it freaking sucks.

Most dating advice columns will tell you to “be confident” or “fake it ’til you make it”… but what the hell does that even mean, anyway?

Finding confidence is a journey, which means that there are going to be slip-ups.

Some guys try to fight this by Facebook stalking their dates beforehand… but what if you don’t want to know your date’s family tree and life history, and you just want to have a good time (and maybe get some action out of it if things go well)?

What should you do in that case?

According to one recent study, your best bet is to hop online and watch some good ol’ fashioned porn. Yup, seriously.

The Sexy Science Behind Why Pre-Date Porn Is a Great Idea…

This recent study has shown that watching porn — even just a few seconds of “softcore” action — can actually help you increase your mental and physical confidence before a first date.

How?

The idea behind it is pretty simple:

When you’re getting ready for a date, it’s no secret that there’s a chance it’ll eventually lead to sex.

But if you let that idea get to your head, or if you overthink it, sometimes, your nerves and self-doubt can eclipse that possibility.

According to the research, watching porn before a date reminds you of the possibility of sex on the first date by — duh! — putting sex at the forefront of your mind.

And as a result, this makes you less nervous and worried about whether or not the date will end in sex.

In fact, the researchers found that men who watched porn before a date were more likely to open up and act less nervous on the actual date. Pretty cool, right?

It might not sound like much, but here’s the truth:

If you’re divulging more personal information on a date, then you’re forming that emotional connection that women so desperately want. So she feels closer to you… and possibly more willing to sleep with you on the first date.

It’s a win-win.

Why Does it Work So Well?

So guys who watch porn (even a little bit) before a date are more likely to engage in personal conversation — what does this mean for you?

Well, first of all, it gives you the chance to make a key connection with the woman you’re on a date with.

But still, you might feel a little weird or “off” about pulling up Pornhub before your hot date. I understand — it makes sense.

However, it’s important to remember that the participants in the study only had to watch a few seconds of porn to reap the benefits of it. Literally, just a few seconds.

So really, all you have to do is watch a couple seconds — not even an entire scene — and you’ll be prepared to open up on your date in the way she wants.

What does this mean for your confidence and sexual empowerment?

If you’re feeling comfortable enough to share personal information with your date and that enhances the vibe, it’s like you’re gaining points in a video game.

Sex is the secret, hidden level you’ve heard about but maybe have never been quite able to reach.

Which is all well and good, but how are you supposed to tie it together?

This can be broken up into some simple steps.

Before a date, you should:

1) Watch Porn

The evidence is here, and it’s crystal clear.

If you watch porn before your date — even a few seconds — you’ll be more likely to divulge personal information to your date.

This gives you a bigger chance of making a connection with your date, which in turn could lead to sex.

And even if it doesn’t, you increase your chances of creating a good vibe between the two of you…

Which means a second date will almost definitely be in the cards.

2) Masturbate (If You Want)

Wanna watch more than just a few seconds of porn?

Not quite sure what to do with all that pent-up sexual frustration?

You’re worrying about nothing. It’s perfectly natural — and even beneficial — to masturbate before your date.

Why?

First of all, it can make you more physically relaxed.

Secondly, if your date does lead to sex, you’ll likely last longer — making things more pleasurable for the both of you.

So don’t overthink it, and don’t be afraid to be a little spontaneous.

Because hey — you never know what could happen. ;-)

As a woman, I love when a guy can open up to me on a first date. It’s rarer and rarer these days, which makes it all the more important.

And beyond that, there is one more thing you can do to ensure you make the physical connection us ladies love.

How?

Check this out:

3) The #1 Reason I Prefer Shy Guys Over Smooth Talkers…

The other day I was thinking:

Of all the first dates I’ve been on… the only guys who can get me out on a second date, are the super shy, kinda quiet ones.

At first, it made NO freaking sense to me. I’m a social butterfly… I appreciate when a guy likes talking as much as I do.

So why am I attracted to these shy, introverted types?

I guess it’s cause they’re more likely to do something… something that makes me feel really good when I’m with them.

And this is a little embarrassing to admit… but that “something” has caused me to break my “wait 3 dates” rule on more than one occasion. ;-)

If you wanna know what it is… just check this out:

Discover the #1 Reason So Many Hot, Single women Prefer Shy Guys Over Smooth Talkers…