I’m apparently, the wrong side of 50. I would be called a “spinster” by those older than me. Never been married, or engaged; come from an Italian background so clearly somethings wrong. Could be gay – not, but that’s not relevant. I’ve bought up my sister’s children, so I’ve had children. I run two businesses, have a wonderful life, love men. Am very blessed, just not married . Oooh I can hear my parents’ friends saying “ah” .