What should encourage us to seek change is this safe and always possible to use “way back home”. If things does not work, there’s always a way back home. So try, if things do not work, there is always someone waiting at home for you.
I totally don’t agree with this idea of being born with some skill, attitude, feature whatever. It’s so easy and convenient to say — I was born this way. “I am lazy/ I forget things/ I don’t like hard work”; Not a big deal — “ I was born this way”. I believe we all BECOME lazy/hardworking or whatever. And it can go either way.