Truth! I always thought I had to start with baby steps . That’s what everyone teaches you. First you choose something that is the most important to you, and you first work on that — always with the baby steps. I would continuously try, how hard I would try, and fail. Plain and simple I felt like everyday I was never the person who I wanted to be. Until I just decided to stop. Stop with all the baby step nonsense, I am who I want to be, every moment in my life will be how I want to react because I have the control. I control my life and that includes everything about me. I might not bee able to control the circumstances surrounding me, but I control all of my reactions — this gives me joy.