I'm afraid you're right, and there really is nothing I can say that will make you feel better, or make you feel anything really. I could try to go for something profound, but that's not helpful either. So instead, I'll just say I'm sorry, and thank you for writing this. I really do believe it's helpful. Take care of yourself. At the end of the day, that's all any of us can do to get through anything, especially the worst thing that can happen <3