Five Ways To Win A Woman’s Heart
Humans are complicated creatures, but women are a little more complicated than men. We are — we know what we want but we won’t communicate that with you clearly because we are afraid to come across as clingy or needy and scaring you away. So we act cool, but inside we are dying. Movies and our girlfriends have convinced us that the perfect guy exists and after God knows how many failed dates, we desperately want you to be our right guy. This is also, just one aspect of the story. On one end we are these desperate, needy, lonely creatures, but on the other hand, we are strong women with standards and if you are not the guy then we’re sorry but it is bye bye!
If you have a woman that you like, then here are some things you can do to win her heart or get a second/third date.
Don’t bring up sex in the first conversation:
Yes, we know for men it is sex>emotions. For women, it’s the opposite. If you want to win her heart, you’ll have to play the game right. Mentioning sex in the first conversation is a massive turn off. It makes us think that it is all you are after and it is useless to try to get to know you. In our heads, the ‘fuckboi’ signal lights up and we know this could turn out to be a wham-bam-bye-bye-mam situation.
Instead of being explicit, take it slow. Wow, your woman. Talk to her, listen to her. No, really — listen to her. Show interest and respect. Take your time with her, build anticipation and then see the magic happen.
Do the small gestures:
Opening the car door for her, holding the door, pulling the chair — these are not shunned. Chivalry shouldn’t be dead. Every woman likes feeling special and these small gestures highlight that you are present in the moment and really looking forward to making this time special for her.
If she doesn’t like these gestures and if she is a smart woman she will let you know. That shouldn’t feel bad or insulting. Don’t do that anymore and carry on with your date.
Call don’t text:
Texting is fine, but every once in a while pick up the phone. Messages heard have a stronger impact than messages read. Also, a lot of emotion and feel gets lost in the written word. We’re not all Charles Bukowski. Pick up the phone and talk to her. Build rapport, make that connection. 99 percent of the guys are texting her. Be among that 1 percent and surprise her. A good phone call sticks for a long time. It won’t just do wonders for her, but for you too.
Mean well:
It’s simple — if you’re only looking for some action, make that clear from the beginning. Avoid any kind of misunderstandings. Humans in general love honesty and there is nothing wrong in not wanting a serious relationship. Keep your intentions and communication clear to avoid any heart breaks.
If her feeling isn’t of primary importance to you then remember karma? That bitch will come back and you won’t like it. So be nice.
Be a good person:
This is not just for women but for the world in general. This world is filled with some terrible people who hurt other people and strangely like it. Don’t be that guy. Be a kind hearted, happy soul. Smile more. Guys with a serious face might appear sexy but the ones smiling seem approachable and easy to talk to. That’s what we want. We all want to build meaningful relationships in the world where the mere term has become redundant.
That’s it, boys! These are the five sure shot ways to stand out and get noticed. We’re all humans and we are all looking for affection. We all want to feel special and wanted. There is nothing wrong it that. Being a good person will not only make us feel good but make this insecure world a better place to live in.
