Yann- you are right on! You can’t have “this” if you don’t do “that.” I’m feeling this way now, I so badly want “this” but don’t want to do “that.” You really just helped me to fully realize “this and that”, goes hand and hand, you can’t have one if you don’t do the other. I think it’s interesting how we want that grand prize without putting in the hard work and effort it takes to get it. Perhaps that could be another blog post: Why do we seek the prize (this), when we are not willing to do (that)? Thanks so much Yann for this valuable contexts you just gave me. Today I will do “that” so I could have “this!”