I see around me lot of relations where the production of the love, enthusiasm, happiness, altruism comes from one side. When you love someone sometimes you are blind and also if Friends try to wake you up, to get you attention in order to let you improve your relation, could happen you are not able to see what are you really living. Or, in order to continue your relation, you spend a lot of energy deleting from your brain all the messages there are not in line with what you would like. This is a huge cosumption of energy, that sometimes dive you in a state of frustration. Sometimes it’s better to putt yourself in the shoes of your best Friend to have a look fron a third postion on what’s happening to you. Earlier you understand if your partner is an energy drainer and earlier you’ll enjoy your full life without having a dead weight to live with. Usaually egoism is at the base of wrong behaviour that make you sink if you are not perfectly aware of the situation you are living with the wrong Partner, because sometime love make you blind, and someone could exploit it.