Thoughts on the question posed @krystya
In reply to your note. Its an extremely valid point. As I said, there are a lot of facets. It seems to me that if we start going into all the attached issues, then she risks being confused more than anything else. So, for the moment, we have to accept her stand that the parents couldn’t handle it and address the question she asked. In effect, by not proposing to change the current situation as such, I am trying to open a dialogue to get her to accept the idea of things can be improved, so we can get more feel for her thoughts on the situation.
I don’t think this can be handled with Medium as the means of communication, it needs privacy and one on one. If she has not sought professional help then she should, if she has and is asking for advice here, she does not trust it. I think your input would be valuable and probaly preferable to a man trying to deal with it. Unfortunately, as I have already mentioned before here, the lack of inter- user communication facilities makes concertation very difficult and I have technical problems dealing with the note system once there is more than one exchange.
I am open to your suggestions or should we wait until we see if she replies?