Being interested :Give Chance others to speak

“You should focus on being interested rather than being interesting”

-Jacqueline Novogretz-

Being interesting is important because it shows how much you are passionate about learning new things. But being interested shows how much you care about other and it also shows that you are ready to give your part to being interesting. Being interesting is something about you but being interested is something about others. These are similar words but it has different meanings and image.

It is good to listen yourself but it’s also important to listen to other. By listening other you explore the new things about other human being.

When I started listening other it changed my way of thinking and it opened a new door of knowledge for me. Through this process you can get an idea what other people think, And what are the most important thing for them.

We some time thinks that our way of thinking and our point of view is good but when we listen to others,it clears so many thing to us. Let suppose we prepare ourself for quiz and when we are studying about a concept with our point of view we think this concept is really important but when time comes then teacher gave us actual work then we came to know that yes this is also an important and worth taking part which we forgot to take as a concept. When we give others a chance to speak it gives us a new way of thinking.

I took a challenge of “being interested” by just normal conversation with friends, colleagues, siblings and with teachers. I did it, just in order to clarify my concept of being interested. I started this by asking how are you, what’s your goal for this year and for other years.

Many people had really good goals for their life. Like some want to go to Dubai. Not just because they want job but they want to go there to improve themself and they also want to know the difference between these two countries. After knowing and after taking ideas they want to serve for their country. This was the new thing for me because mostly people just want job in another country. No one thinks just like this.

Another important point that I experienced from other was to get an internship is also difficult just like job. Before this I just thought that getting an internship is easy, we only experience difficulty in getting jobs. But without reference you are unable even to get an internship.

According to me, to start anything is difficult but not impossible.Being interested is also like our first date. In first date you just completely take interest in other person. This concept was also applied in “Brave” which was an animated movie.