Shower thoughts

Why is it that people can love someone so much and that love not be returned? Like when did it become such a common practice for a human to not return the love that they have given to them?

I don’t know if any one has seen or read The Perks of being a Wallflower here but there is an idea in the book that states that we accept the love we thing we deserve. I think this is one of the best way that anyone has ever described love ever.

I have this friend at collage who is so madly in love with this girl. I mean its almost a story worthy of a Nicholas Sparks novel, except that she don’t love him back. And she thinks that she is not “good enough” for him, which i why i think she wont accept love from him but will from other boys/men who are crappy to her.

I generally think this is why so many relationships never happen. Until a few months ago i had this guy tell me i was worthless etc for two years straight and it’s only been since i’ve got an entirely new group of friends that I’ve realized that i settled for a romance and love from someone who didn’t deserve me and that sucks because no I don’t know what love I should accept.

I think that everyone should accept the love they are given because it is deserved. But “love” is also a losing game.