How To Keep Your Girlfriend

Iwan
Iwan
Jul 10, 2017 · 4 min read

I will teach you how to keep your girlfriend as long as possible, but do not be dumb and realize if you are being toxic or if the relationship is not going well.

1. Stay yourself

Do not change your personality for the girl, you may impress her, but it will display this fake image and it will work only in the short term. If you are being fake the girl notices that and it really pushes her away. So if you like playing video games and she hates them, fuck her DO YOU. This will show that you are alpha and if she does not like it she can leave anytime, by you having the abundance to do such a thing she will be like: “wow, he really does not give a shit andI like it”. The girl does not like to be the center of her boyfriends life. It may seem like she wants that, but she does not. The reason so many relationships fail is because the guy is doing everything just to please the girl, he even changes himself. By the guy changing himself, it indicates that you are weak and easily controlled aka. you are beta. Do not be a complete jerk and not give her any attention but learn how to calibrate, dont be complete jerk, but do not put her onto a pedestal either.

2. Keep it interasting

Nobody wants to be in a relationship that is repetetive, do not just take her to the same shitty place every date. You have to spice it up everytime, be that physically or emotionally. Keep working on yourself the same as you would if you are still single, do not stop meditating, working out, working hard in general. You have to stay evolving and changing. If the girl says you changed do not be apologetic, that is good. When Facebook puts out a new visual feature everybody hate it at first but while the time is passing they adapt, so do not stop changing. Changing is just a bad word for evolving or leveling up, you can only hang out with people that are on the same level as you, so when you level up you can expect somebody to not be on the same level as you are.

3. Evolve together

Do not just go your own way, try to get her meditating, try to get her into the gym and working on herself. Evolve make your expirience even better and vice versa. Do be MGTOW, they are just weak bitches who are afraid to interact with the opposite sex.

4. Fear of losing you

You have to be abundante and still socialize, same as you would if you did not have a girlfriend. Make more male and female friends, she may feel jelause of you meating other girls. You meating other girls will make her want you even more, because she will think: “wow, he is so cool, there are all these hot female friends he has and he chose me? Now I am afraid of losing him, and I will love him even more, fuck him even better etc.!” So she only made your life even better, you were awesome without her anyways.

5. Abundance

If you are getting a girlfriend you have to come from a mindset of abundance. Get a girl to make each other lifes even better, do not come from a mindset of desperation. Desperation is where you NEED a girlfriend and are nothing without her. So you have to be AWESOME without her anyways.

6. Have a passion

The reason girls like successful men is because they have a passion and if they need to go to work, they go and work, they do not bend under the girls pressure of what she wants you to do. Do your thing, not caring if she wants to cuddle. So if you have to go workout and she wants to cuddle, GO WORKOUT! This will give her a range of positive and negative emotions, which will indicate you are alpha.

7. Do not be jelause

Do not be jelause of her hugging or hanging out with some guy friend, everything this will indicate is that you are not alpha and that you are afraid of losing her instead of her fearing to lose you. So stay cool and alpha.

DO NOT SETTLE AFTER GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP!


So go and crush it NOW!

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