Christmas Eve — the ultimate day of heated anticipation and expectation. Since the early days of October there has been a build up of anticipation with a peak on Black Friday and probably another on the Saturday before Christmas. Now it is Christmas Eve and despite the rainy gloom that is covering Charlotte and all of the southeast, there is a glimmer of hope about what the next day holds.

Has there been anything that has exceeded the expectation of such anticipation? The birth of my children possibly? The first kiss between me and my wife? Both a resounding yes…but short of those two events, what else has accomplished this in my life? And is this something that is to be blamed on me or something that just is?

I want to exceed any expectations that are set on me by the ones I love, the ones I lead, and the ones I serve.

The anticipation of 2015 as what could be the most pivotal year of my life is weighing heavy on me. Will the ventures I’m involved in gain the traction I hope for? Will I be able to finally achieve the goals I set at the beginning of the year? Who will I meet that will shape my personal and professional life in my 40's? So many questions, just waiting there like gifts under a tree.

Not sure what the next year holds but this is what I hope for:

I hope to be able to impact everyone I encounter in a positive way.

I hope to have the courage to be the same person in every situation.

I hope to be the father and husband my family deserves.

I want to exceed any expectations that are set on me by the ones I love, the ones I lead, and the ones I serve.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you and yours.