Not sure you can take hate out of the rules without also taking love out. People must CHOOSE the better path, not have the better path as the only option. That’s part of what people feel they are rebelling against when they rant against PC speech.
An interesting quote that these days is very relevant, from Philip K. Dick: Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn’t go away.
(PS: I took your class a few years ago and thought it was very good.)