Our plan this spring was to have a simple stone patio installed off the back of our home. But suddenly I’m having all sort of ideas about refinishing the back porch and stair to have it match the patio, and maybe we should just hire some landscapers to do the whole back of the house, and maybe some flower boxes would look nice . . . I’m kinda concerned because my spouse will just say “go for it” so I need to rein myself in.