This is so well put, and resonates so much with where I am at…thank you, thank you, thank you! I believe that separating to rediscover, or finally define, who we are when having so many issues is the best option, but sometimes it can be financially or emotionally taxing to the point of being the breaking point. I am going to try it, and it will be hard, but I firmly believe that you are 100% correct, and had known it 5 years ago. ❤ ❤