Somehow, the officer asking if she was on Tinder, was an immediate insinuation that despite being the “perfect victim” (ugh, so problematic), she may still have somehow been asking to get raped.
Tinder is not an invitation for rape. Cuddle parties can teach consent.
Xiaohoa Michelle
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Or, the cops were trying to ascertain the circumstances. If the victim HAD used Tinder, there would obviously be a way to track them.

As far as your own story goes, I think not reporting the incident as what you say it was, a rape, you are doing a great disservice not only to yourself but to other potential victims.

Unless, of course, it wasn’t rape, and you just had regrets.

You ARE rape culture.

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