I was born March 16, 197…..8 ok. 1978! (LOL). I don’t know what my mom was feeling on that day. My father wasn’t there at my birth due to fearing the age gap between he and my 15 year old mother. Due to his not being present and being afraid…

I suck at relationships. Relationships have never been my strong suit. At the moment of this writing I have, count it, three legit friends, and a best friend. I have people I know, and people that think they know me, but for the most part most of these people are…

Distance Distance has a way of revealing many different facets of our lives. First it reveals others true motives, then it reveals us to us. Both are important, and both are game changers in the game called life. For about two years, I choose to distance myself. Well…the decision to…

Daddy… Very few of you know my dad, and there is a reason for that. NEITHER DO I! This blog isn’t meant to cast shade on a man whom I love and cherish with all of my heart. But what I’m hoping will come from this blog is an awareness…

Reasoning…GOD. At first glance, it feels like these two terms don’t even go together. But even before I get to a few verses in the Bible that show it’s something that is actually encouraged, ask yourself why. Why do you feel reasoning is evil, a sin, or even blasphemous? This…

Castles or huts? Can you imagine this tradeoff? A beautiful castle, full of gold, rooms, art, history and mystique…for a worn down man made hut? You and I both know we would not be that foolish to make this sort of trade. …

They say confessions are good for the soul, but what do we do when there is no one to confess too? For many years there was a battle within me, but I couldn’t find anyone to pour myself out to. This was the result of being hurt, abused, lied to…

Growing up I had a very tight crew that to this day are my close friends. When in need I can call them. When I’m hurting I can call them. We could not talk for years but the minute I text or call I get a response. They are my…

What happened… “Used” Use me. It was a prayer that I made when I first came to the Lord. What I didn’t know then that I know now is that it is was answered in multiple ways. See, as I stated in my previous blog, I fell in love with…