So true. I was 50 years old before I accepted that I was the problem; it changed my life. I quit blaming the outside world and began to focus on what I needed to change in me. My life became less about what I want and more about appreciating what I have and realizing that I always get what I need even though I may not know that I need it at the time. I have a lot less fear, more acceptance, and more peace in my life.