Still, I understand the urge to blame. The thought of something happening to one of your kids is so uncomfortable, so painful, that you’ll do anything to make it go away. Including foisting shame on someone on what may be the worst day of their lives.
Shaming Frazzled Parents Won’t Save Your Kids From Tragedy
Frances Locke

This is such a beautiful example of an empathic and concise takedown I am jealous I didn’t write it. Awesome