I find it fascinating that so many of the responses here are saying that the problem is with you…
stephanie hornung

I suspect the reason for blaming the individual user is because in a culture of individualism (oh so strong in the US), the individual is always supposed to be in control. External institutions and their impact upon individual action is largely unrecognized, even invisible. It’s ALWAS about changing the individual and their culture and NEVER about changing the tool, app, institution or environment.