I’m talking about the ability to transform into something else. No I do not believe in change. I do not believe that somebody can become somebody else. To me that just means one is putting on this facade or mask to hide who you truly are. I have heard people say “I’m going to change” multiple times. In fact I am one who has said that. However, that’s not what I want from anybody including myself. If for some reason you tell me you are going to change I will say that if you do so I don’t care to associate with you, for you changing is you pretending to be someone you’re not.
I believe in evolution. The ability to evolve into a better version of yourself. You are who you are but you enhance your better aspects and dissolve your negative ones. Now that does not mean if you evolve you’re perfect and flawless, it means you are working at being the best you that you can be. Personally I have evolved and I even feel different. I must admit I’m not completely happy with myself just yet but I’m getting there. I have seen people around me evolve and as much time as it takes to do so it does happen. The point in writing this is to say that if you don’t enjoy who you are or somebody around you speak up & when you speak up don’t ask them to change or tell yourself to change. Evolve.