Do you want to talk to someone?
But ever think ‘ahh its so random though I don’t wanna seem creepy?’ But really you have no idea how else to communicate with that person. It can be an old friend or someone you’re attracted to but regardless there’s just this uncomfortable feeling about talking to that person. You’re maybe scared they might reject what you say or not even acknowledge it and say ‘ true, thats random thanks for that’
In reality there are those people. If you’re familiar with them or was at one point you’ll have a good idea how they react but what about maybe someone you want to get to know?
I say, just do it anyway. Say whatever is on your mind (as long as its kind of course). We are so scared of rejection but why? Because we’re selfish and believe everyone has to like us. Like ‘ oh this person doesn’t like me blaaaah’ out of billions of people obviously the vast majority will NOT like you and realistically you’re LOOKING FOR THE ONE so find that person through the crowds!
Don’t be afraid to interact with people. I love when i get a random message, i don’t say ‘oh that person used to be a loser in high school or i heard that person does this now’, I am just super friendly and happy to talk about whatever it is!
People aren’t that bad. You’ll run into a few but communicate and don’t be afraid to take risks because you might have found ‘the one’ or even a new best friend by just saying hi.
Just be super confident while talking! Stick to what you know and say whatever you really feel. Its the best way to be yourself
‘Be confident and be yourself’ is shitty advice realistically. Figure out what that means to you in each situation. If you stick to what you know, you’re truthful, you’re who you would be in front of your best friend or family then the only supporting facts for saying things during a conversation is ‘that’s just how I feel’
Take it or leave it… never be too sad or too happy with the outcome. Let each situation guide you and know that if you are rejected you are one person closer to find the one who won’t reject you; that person.
