Your sex drive…pshhh AVERAGE!

Most people exaggerate their driving ability and sexual prowess for the positive social signaling benefits.

The problem is that sex is more prestigious than driving, but seems deceptively more simpler than driving. Thats why people are more comfortable saying 'I slay in bed’, than 'I drive like Lewis Hamilton’.

Therefore most who say they are are great in bed are pretty average. And most who say they can drive ok (average), are pretty bad drivers.

This tendency to overstate is also environment specific, like how people in top consulting firms exaggerate just how strategic or nerdy they are. It gets even more strange how people overstate how tolerant they are in liberal and affluent circles.

If most spoke about sex and driving they way they do about their high school algebra results, it would not be uncommon to hear people (especially straight butch men) say ' my algebra is okish, my sex game is average, my driving is bad, my geometry is attrocious’.

Also consider that many people who consider themselves rockstars in bed or behind the wheel mis-attribute their success to themselves. Most people are not good drivers and cars are designed to be easy to drive for users who are not that profficient. Its like saying you are good at warming food when microwaves were designed to be simple.

Secondly the root of a partner’s orgasm is attributable other soft factors such as trust and luck. So for those who pride themselves on giving orgasms, I am sure we can agree that climax= (Physical pleasuring+novelty)*(trust)*(luck).

Maybe sex is as hard as algebra. If we want people to be truthful about their sex and driving, the world population must be convinced that high performance sex/driving, like algebra can ONLY be leveraged for practical dominance by a select few.