You do realize that ‘Don’t Start A Relationship If You’re Not In Love’ would result in an overwhelming amount of 45-year-old virgins? Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but how many people are willing to handle the prospect of remaining virgins for such a long time? You very full well know that people will judge you for not having had a relationship by the time you’re whatever age the world has decided you must have had a relationship.

Just how many people fall in love so easily they can make it their criteria for a relationship? How many times have you fallen in love and the other person was both interested AND available? Does this leave you with any relationship you could have pursued?

I totally get that’s the basis on which relationships should happen. Hoarding somebody else’s The One is wrong at best. I just don’t see how it stands the test of reality and its tepid compromises allowing for human weakness, giving in to pressure and the unability to take loneliness anymore.