FREQUENCY CHECK:STER

Lately I have realized that we don’t have to analyze, work things out, or resolve things and situations with other people. We can just “not pick up the ball” so to speak. Sometimes we “inherit” situations from other places that has nothing at all to do with us emotionally — Parents, DNA, society etc. I am not saying I and you shouldn’t be responsible for our lives and creations. What i am saying is, sometimes it simply doesn’t have anything to do with you, you put the fork on the left side of the plate, because you were taught that is how one does… In other countries they eat with their fingers or with chopsticks… So therefor that way is NOT an ultimate truth, it’s a preference.

We learn how to interpret what it means if a person calls you the day after, we learn how to read shade, we learn what is “negative”, we learn what we should hide, what we should fear, what we should love, we learn what is a bad person or a good person, we learn how we “should” deal with things, we learn that us being in certain circumstances that was just “given” — “indicates” — something about us to be a “certain” kind of person… And you know what, it doesn’t. If you want to eat with your fingers for the rest of your life, you can take that decision right now and tell others that “yo, I don’t eat with forks, I like it this way” and that is totally good. Of course that is an extreme example, my point is.

→ Work on the things that you can improve, let go of the things you can’t, and don’t buy the concept that is daily pounded in to our heads through society that you have to feel bad for taking those choices. You are perfect the way you are, there hasn’t been another you, take a deep breath, and just flow, and don’t be anxious for other people’s anxieties. Check your frequency — what is you, what is somebody else. And through that love yourself the best way you can.

x Kissey.